Poems of a Jamaican Girl.


I can leave you

I swear

With Scalpel to my soul

The difference

between us and you

Leaves me as a whole

So Mask to face

And Fragrant Sevo

I’ll go under

Four , three, two…

Wether I wake

Or kiss turns blue

I’ll recover

Free from you

By Praiziz

Neither here, nor there

There is someone out there wishing

desperately to get the freaking heck

out of the thing called Marriage

There is someone else who deeply

thinks it gets better and forcely

deciding to give it one last chance

        Meanwhile some people are so 
excited because they are about to get
down the marriage lane

         And some other is praying relentlessly to God not to give up on the ‘hoping to find a Soul Mate’

life so complicated. ?


She started off smartly. ‘Hexibisoning different character’,(in Jenifa’s voice) till where she keeps coining series of excuses, from why she fortunately unfortunately wouldn’t attend Toyosi’s Parent’s Annivasary, how her father was rich and loves her bla bla, to why he bought her lots of phones and all the different trips…

This is why I love this series. The way the writer makes the character so real trying to tell exactly why girls don’t get their goal when they live by throwing things out of proportion. Beverly Osu ‘s and the character personality she played is impressive and beg to serve a tasty dish in the plate if girls who live their lives goal on cooking up cock and bool stories without even thinking twice or listening to their friends.

Ok. Erm I loved her still because no matter what.There was always a way out. Smart one!

But this episode where she was duped by her boyvrend proved she is the dumbest of Jenifa’s friends so far.


” Where is Lara?, Desmond gave me a check of 1.5ml and I….”

At some point , I thought something will somehow make her change her lies and deciet, like maybe Desmond coming out from the shop with a gun threatning to kill her for betraying his love and trust with proofs before her in public-a lesson to make her remoursful and come back to him or better still change for good. That would have been also embarrassing and I will know she is now a changed person.

But I was not really happy with the way things turned out with her. It shouldnot have ended that way. I dont think the dupe thing was a lesson for that kind of someone, it will not change her. It might make her even smarter next time😃

If something worse like she was jazzed, or so…lmao …ok maybe fine. But Dupe! That kind of dupe is too easy.

Like seriously? People don’t easily get away with such nowadays. Without a trace? No Lara? The Shop does not even belong to Lara.

I wonder why she was so easily foooled by Desmond. She trusted him so much to that extent- couldnt even smell conspiracy. His cousin pops of from nowhere and woops!, transaction continues. They were meeting for the first time. Who does that? If not for a set of dumb desmonperados like she potrayed…

She was so clouded by the smoke of her wannabe, that she could not think straight. 😃

If It was the other way. I mean, her really being in love with Desmond, then the case would have been #dumb for the sake of love -but hey! He was just like every other fresh bite from her hit and run guyz… In for the money. So where did her trust come from?

That was dump (sorry to say) she should have been smatter, at least the fact that Desmond had no definite base should ring a red bell. Was it not dumb to just loosen up to someone who jumps in and out of hotels? Hahah And she foolishly was running to the hotel to reconfirm her dumbness! What was she expecting rose flowers? Or another suprise from ‘Daddy’. ? Its a pirry Merlzy… She was even lucky Kiki and Toyosi followed her, she would have trecked penniless…(lol)😂

Sorry Merlzy take heart! Biko😅

You aint the master of the game!

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  For some reason. I’m reluctant to publish this blog post. It’s not a topic I’m an expert on, and academics are generally cautious about writing on something they haven’t researched, due to the fear of being shredded by someone with a PhD  in sociology of relationships and 20 years’ experience in the field of marriage  or relationship counselling and love psychology.

I’m also worried about making things worse, about saying the wrong thing and invoking the collective ire of the Internet #trolls.   Or people relating all my blog post and thinking  it’s happening  to me.  This is also the kind of topic where it’s difficult not to take sides or to admit that you don’t have all the answers, because it’s so polarizing and opinionated.
I have posted somethings about http://ego as a matchette to a relationship
http://ego as a man I hope they were helpful.  But the truth  is

When friends  tell me how the bitter taste of their relationship  make them puke over the cracks of life, I feel there’s  something there’s  to be done.
  Here’s what I have to say :
Don’t  believe  me just read:D


Remember that saying?
the surest way of mending  your heart is quickly going  into a new relationship”.

Oh dear, if you work with that I hope you come out safe because  it doesn’t  make sense  for someone  to rush into a new relationship  with a wounded heart.

1 You  will not just transfer the agression  of the past relationship to the present
2  You will unconsciously/unconsciously become  so hiper sensitive and defensive over little things
   Among  others, this will infect  your present relationship with early signs of potential  breakup threats. That sure doesn’t smell good!
In every relationship, two people share a mental and physical
relationship with each other. The love which was once shared between the two is, somehow, lost now and which definitely would take some time to recover. But before that, you’ll have to
be prepared mentally.
Why not solve it other ways.

Does crying makes you less of a man?
Man! Wake up. Crying for things that actually meant a lot to
you don’t make you any less of a man

     That one tear, that tiny, salty, droplet of moisture is a means of escape. So small a tear, yet so heavy a relief  And it doesn’t do a damn thing to fix anything.

Dont be shamed to weep; ’tis right to grieve. Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. A wounded heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us”            Chase Brooks

You have cried enough. Now. Wipe those tears off and Control your heart. Surround yourself with things that makes you happy. Happiness is immateral if it comes from within. An immaterial  thing is unique and expensive,  that is what makes you strong_ Creating  your happiness!
Don’t  buy cheap happiness by soley depending  on him or her to bring it to you. Get it yourself.


Don’t cry over the things which aren’t in your control

Don’t cry over the people who doesn’t love you back
Don’t cry over people who doesn’t value you
Don’t cry over the feelings which lead you nowhere
Don’t cry over your past, it’s gone. Gone far .”                 
                                        Summit official

If you keep finding  yourself  in the thrust  of a spouse  who repeatedly  keeps doing  thing to hurt you. The thing to is run and don’t  give him/her such opportunity . Recognise the difference  between  being  in love and being senseless. The blinding shades of the love you both share is enough  don’t  let oppression  add up dark shades.  You will end up thanking  God such a person  us out of your life.

Pls share your view.
Will bring you more soon
Thanks. 🙂